Less by Andrew Sean Greer

My friend Stuart’s house is like a shining oasis of fun in the middle of San Francisco. Whenever I walk up the steps to his front door, I am immediately transformed into an evening of crisp white wine, deep conversation and food better than any restaurant you can imagine, thanks to his partner Ryan, who is a professional chef. Recently, on such a festive evening, I found myself walking over to Stuart’s coffee table and picking up this book, “Less” by Andrew Sean Greer. I knew the book had won the Pulitzer Prize for fiction in 2018, but I had never read it. Stuart immediately handed me the book, and said “Here. Read it. Bring it back next time.” It turns out that Greer also lives in San Francisco not far from Stuart’s home. I dove into “Less” and was fascinated by the tale of Arthur Less, a failed novelist who is about to turn 50. When a wedding invitation arrives from Arthur’s boyfriend of nine years who is now engaged to another man, Arthur is sent into a tailspin of anxiety. He would rather do anything than turn 50 and go to this wedding. So, he finds his exit strategy by accepting a series of less-than-top notch literary speaking engagements around the world. The event and the location are not the most important thing to Arthur. Rather, the need to escape from his life, and his aging future, is foremost in his mind. His life on the run takes him to Mexico, Italy, Morocco, India, Japan, France and Germany. Seeing the world through Arthur’s eyes is to be guided by a witty, observant, well-skilled master. No matter what country he is in, no matter what predicament he is in, we are compelled to follow Arthur Less, anywhere, because it is a joy to be his traveling companion. His struggles are a reflection of our own lives, when we were on the cusp of turning 50. His story is not only entertaining but poignant and universal. To buy this book on Amazon click here.

Bravey by Alexi Pappas

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I have always been fascinated by Olympic athletes. In fact, I recently started following gymnast Nadia Comaneci on Instagram because she is still married to fellow gymnast Bart Connor and they are adorable. Most Olympic athletes who finally make it to the games have complicated stories of dedication, heartbreak, loss and triumph. Alexi Pappas is no exception. Born in 1990 in Berkeley, California, she lost her mother to suicide when she was just four years old. Her father was left to raise Alexi and her brother alone, and one of the activities he encouraged her to try was sports. She took an immediate liking to soccer, and track. Her school would not let girls play more than one sport, although they would let boys do that. Faced with making a choice, she at first pursued soccer over track. It was not until college at Dartmouth where she would uncover her love of running again. At Dartmouth she earned her undergraduate degree, and later attended the University of Oregon, where she earned her Master’s. With the absence of her mother, she looked toward female athletes as her role models. Running became her safe haven, as she struggled to face her mother’s past mental health issues, with her own emerging depression. Despite her struggles, she set her sights on running in the Olympics. Thanks to her father’s heritage, she was able to become a Greek Citizen, and represent Greece in the Summer 2016 Olympics, where she set the Greek national record for the 10K. When her Olympic career was over, she pursued her love of acting, writing and film. She and her husband, Jeremy Teicher have made several movies, including “Tracktown,” in which Pappas stars with comedian Rachel Dratch. Her memoir is inspiring, honest, and most of all brave. She coined the term “bravey” and defines it as living on her own terms and finding joy in her independence. To buy this book on Amazon click here.